Toxic

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"Toxic people attach themselves like cinder blocks tied to you ankles, and then invite you for a swim in their poisoned waters." - John Mark Green

Today I need to remind myself that the need to let go of toxic relationships is not a failing on my part, but rather a failing on theirs.



Today the magic of Christmas is over. I woke up and found a Facebook message from my mom that was just very passive-aggressive and had a super anti-transgender vibe to it (pointedly towards my wife who is transgender). I didn't respond, because I've already said it all and given her all of the facts (both general facts and specific-to-my-wife facts) that refute everything she says. She made up her mind on this subject a long time ago and she is clearly unwilling to consider any information that might require her to change her mind.


To Do List: Remainder of 2017


  1. Create a Page and list my large goals for 2018.
  2. Break my 2018 goals into smaller goals.
  3. Finish Christmas shopping.
  4. Finish watching The Big Bang Theory.
  5. Finish watching Supernatural.
  6. Read all the books I currently have checked out from the library.
  7. Deep clean and organize the laundry room.
  8. Deep clean and organize the kitchen.
  9. Deep clean and organize my office area.
  10. Deep clean and organize the dining room.
  11. Deep clean and organize the living room.
  12. Deep clean and organize the hallway and stairs.
  13. Deep clean and organize the bathroom.
  14. Deep clean and organize my bedroom.
  15. Deep clean and organize the boy's bedroom.
  16. Deep clean and organize the game room.
  17. Deep clean and organize Siera's bedroom.
  18. Deep clean and organize Tiana's bedroom.
  19. Take the garage stuff to the dump.
  20. Make sure Tiana is caught up with school and ready to return.
  21. Make sure Siera is caught up with school and ready to return.
  22. Make sure Andrew is caught up with school and ready to return.
  23. Finish watching the seasons of Eureka that I own.

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